So….. I’ve Kinda Moved

June 29th, 2015 I walked into my boss’s office via her request. I had just came back from a 2 week vacation and was feeling renewed. Sometimes you just need a break from the monotony of the day-to-day schedule and just needed a little encouragement from the sunshine to de-stressed. During my vacation in the… Continue reading So….. I’ve Kinda Moved

~~Doran & Jezscia…Catfish, Colorism and Black Women’s Role In It~~

Like most 20-somethings that live on their own and that stretch out a pot of pasta for as a long as possible so they can pay their bills, I don’t have cable. The only time I watch actual TV is when I’m over my parents’ house or when I get some type of gumption from… Continue reading ~~Doran & Jezscia…Catfish, Colorism and Black Women’s Role In It~~

“I Feel So Behind!”~~Why You Shouldn’t Compare Your Life to Another’s

The American version of time is so embedded in our culture that we tend to allow it to spill over from the day-to-day activities to our entire lifetime. Let me explain: By 16 you’re supposed to have your first love; by 18, you’ve should’ve date 2 boys by now, have graduated from high school and… Continue reading “I Feel So Behind!”~~Why You Shouldn’t Compare Your Life to Another’s

The Best Revenge

Valentine’s Day draws out a lot of emotions from people. For some it’s love–it reminds them of the person they have, the people who blesses them everyday with their presence. But, for most, it’s a reminder that you are once again SINGLE in a world that values you on whether or not you’re wanted by… Continue reading The Best Revenge

How to Combat the “Single Girl Holiday Blues”

Holidays. A time for food, fun and family. A time when memories are recalled and made. A time when laughter fills the air, food fills tummies and emotions of warmth and love fill our hearts giving us that lovely, gooshy feeling. But, for some of us, holidays magnify the only negative feeling of singledom. They… Continue reading How to Combat the “Single Girl Holiday Blues”

Mistakes and Consequences: What I’ve Learned From Dating ~~ The Bad Boy Syndrome Part 2

This is a continuation from my last post about The Bad Boy Syndrome and Mr. Thug. Mr. Thug was a huge part of my love life for 3 years. It’s a lot of mistakes. lol So, like I was saying, after Mr. Thug revealed to me that he was dating someone else the whole time,… Continue reading Mistakes and Consequences: What I’ve Learned From Dating ~~ The Bad Boy Syndrome Part 2