A Letter to Beyoncé

I, like most people, was a complete Destiny’s Child fan. Personally, my favorite band member was always Kelly (she reminded me so much like my older sister physically). I, like most people, was saddened to see Destiny’s Child break up. Among the deaths of Aaliyah and Left Eye, the mental breakdown of Brittney Spears, the… Continue reading A Letter to Beyoncé

“I Feel So Behind!”~~Why You Shouldn’t Compare Your Life to Another’s

The American version of time is so embedded in our culture that we tend to allow it to spill over from the day-to-day activities to our entire lifetime. Let me explain: By 16 you’re supposed to have your first love; by 18, you’ve should’ve date 2 boys by now, have graduated from high school and… Continue reading “I Feel So Behind!”~~Why You Shouldn’t Compare Your Life to Another’s

The Angry Sister Syndrome MisDiagnosed

What is the Angry Sister Syndrome? The Angry Sister Syndrome or A.S.S. is the term used for Black women who have taken the Sapphire spirit and times it by 10….The sympthoms include: anger, irritability, loudness, being obnxious, condescending attitude, extreme threats of physical violence, having the need to be in control and various others. Upon seeing… Continue reading The Angry Sister Syndrome MisDiagnosed

The Tired Black Man and the Angry Black Woman:How to Soothe Both Sides~~Conclusion

I can’t and won’t persuade a person to date inside their culture if they don’t want to, but do consider your reasoning. Why do you want to date outside your race? Is it because you’re tired of a woman’s anger. Are you tired of her nagging and “put downs”? Are you tired of her scathing… Continue reading The Tired Black Man and the Angry Black Woman:How to Soothe Both Sides~~Conclusion

The Tired Black Man and the Angry Black Woman Part 2: Why Black Women are So Angry

“Why are Black woman so angry?” is one of the most sought after questions within the Black community. Why do we have attitudes? Why do we shout and yell and roll or necks and eyes? Why are we so willing to fight? This is one of the main reasons why Black men say they date… Continue reading The Tired Black Man and the Angry Black Woman Part 2: Why Black Women are So Angry