If You Have to Scream to the Top of Your Lungs about how much you LOVE your Single life….

….you’re only fooling yourself.

Sometimes too much is too much.

I have the ultimate pleasure to know young women–college-age women– who write in their blogs, update their status and tweet that they dislike commitment and enjoy their life as a single woman. I’m not saying that it’s wrong to like being single. The freedom of it alone makes it desirable. But, do you have to say over and over again how much you cringe at the thought of commitment? It is as if these young ladies absolutely HATE relationships…why? Maybe because they had failed relationships in the past…or just maybe these rants draw other away from a deeper issue.

Low self-esteem? Maybe.

Hating of men? Possibly.

But I found out that the main reason why young women who dislike relationships scream it at the top of their lungs is that this a defense mechanism that ultimately draw men away from these women.

And it is absolutely an affective one.

Just think about it. Have you ever seen these type of young ladies with a man? Do you see men pursuing these women? These are the women who deep down inside WANT a significant other. But, for some reason, it terrifies them so they build up a wall hoping to drive these men away from them. And, when the men have gone, they can reiterate their distaste for commitment.

So, what am I saying?

SHUT UP! BE QUIET!!!

There are some of us that would like one and there’s no reason for you to rain on our parade.

So, if you don’t want a relationship, keep it to yourself because once you scream it, it not only shows that you’re fooling yourself, it shows that you’re aching for much more than the rest of us.

NappyCentric

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